Introducing: The Unhinged Female.
Achieve Freedom and Success By Utterly Losing Your Shit
Unruly. Unfiltered. Unapologetically Free.
When I was 7, my mother was kidnapped. By age 8 I knew what the inside of prisons looked like. The man my mother was set to marry had shot someone- a teenager- in the arm while on a bender. This becoming intimately familiar with prison visitation areas happened all over again when I was 11 when my next step dad was incarcerated. The joke in the town that I grew up in was that our “kitchen was the police third shift break room.” They were there several times a week. I watched my mom, a single parent, make just a few pennies too many to qualify for government aid and go bankrupt when she developed a seizure disorder. My mama tried her best with what she had mentally and physically. Nonetheless, we lost our home and had very little for a very long time. In high school I was well hated by my assistant principal and plenty of my fellow students (thanks Mr. Watt) for not fitting the hetero-norm. I moved out the first time at age 16 with my girlfriend. We lived off what little groceries we could buy and what we could steal from her mom’s freezer when she wasn’t home. These are just a couple blips of a long, painful story. My adulthood was a bit of a whirlwind as well and I became a single mom to two babies in diapers at age 29. Today that feels like it was nothing and I still do not know how I made it. I’ll share more of that soon but my career has beaten the odds.
Fast forward 10 years and today I own 5 businesses, have extensive Post-Master’s education, a 20 year successful career in nursing, have traveled the world with my kids, have a happy, healthy family, and am still amazed that “I did it.” However, I was not supposed to make it. Life was not set up for me to succeed. As a result, I went through years of imposter syndrome, living on autopilot, and never being happy with what I have. I had lost my shit so many times and fought those feelings over and over again until 2021 when I had had enough. I utterly lost my shit. Fortunately for me, I do not always follow the rules well and that is how I broke free. Free from the crushing expectations of being a woman or a mother in this country, free from being unable to be an active, engaged parent, free from being stuck in one place, and free from the 9-5 grind.
For years, I believed the lies I told myself about why I couldn’t have more. I do not mean material things but the impossible-more time, more peace, more will to face my demons. If you know any more of my story first hand, you know that I chased success, settled for less, then ran from the very feelings that would have set me free. This chase served as some facade by which I tried to ignore that I carried burden after burden on my back. Shame, guilt, embarrassment, and attachment trauma, all cozily and haphazardly stashed away behind a veil of busy-ness.
The truth?
The only person that ever got in my way in my adult life until 2021 was me. The further truth? The only person that still gets in my way, is ME. These days I am aware of that fact and embracing that shit show side of me. This is where the Unhinged Female comes in.
The Unhinged Female isn’t just a brand. It’s a movement. A reckoning. A call to the women who’ve checked any of the society-induced boxes—career, motherhood, degrees, titles—and still feel caged by a life that looks good on paper but feels like slow suffocation. Perhaps they want to check the boxes but are constantly at odds with themself and fighting the trauma and feelings that hold us back.
I am creating this space for the woman who is ready to outgrow herself.
To outgrow her rhythms.
To outgrow the patterns and confines of the American lifestyle (lather, rinse, suffer, repeat.)
Because those feelings we avoid—especially fear—are often the very things anchoring us to our pain. I call them success-interfering behaviors, and I’ve lived every one of them.
This is for the woman who is finally ready to lose her shit—in the best way possible.
To unravel.
To unbecome.
To let go of perfection and reclaim power.
So I ask you:
What do you need freedom from?
Your lifestyle?
Your career?
Your mental blocks?
The version of you that’s been performing instead of LIVING?
The Unhinged Female is your permission slip to disrupt your own life in the name of freedom, truth, and authenticity.
Let’s get unhinged starting Summer 2025.
What will be offered?
Rage School and the Unhinged Method
Private workshops, 1:1 and group coaching, a support system with like-minded people, workbooks, transformational modules, the tools you need to become Regulated, Not Nice.
This is JUST the beginning. More than a program, it’s a permission slip to your freedom and success, no matter how you define it.
